Xiu Erdai's daily essays

3480_Be more careful

Pei Douxing: "So we need more correct guidance. You can talk about normal love relationships and sex safety education, but unconventional multi-angle distorted relationships should be carefully discussed with a more rigorous attitude, rather than casual gossip."

Pei Douxing: "An overly casual attitude will bring me a wrong perception, thinking that what is abnormal is also normal. This kind of cognition that sprouted at a young age will accompany me throughout my life. When I become an adult, when I realize that this cognition After knowing that there is a problem, it is difficult for me to correct it from the bottom of my heart."

...I think you have educated yourself well.The elder sister should not have such an academic understanding of sexual relations, because the father has always let us in this regard. He thinks this is not a big deal, it is human nature, let us do whatever we want.So I casually flipped through a lot of Acacia Sect materials, and my brother casually searched for sex friends everywhere, and my sister... I don't know much about her situation, but I certainly didn't treat it too seriously.

Me: "Sorry, I was negligent."

Pei Douxing: "Hey, add one more. I used this attitude to block many seniors who asked me about the situation so that they couldn't continue asking."

Me: "...very good, I found an effective way to prevent harassment."

Pei Douxing: "Uncle Lin is angry with me?"

Me: "No, it's just that I will keep a doubt when I listen to your words in the future."

Pei Douxing: "..."

Me: "I'm not holding grudges, and I'm really not angry with you. I just know that you will avoid the topic like this or call it a joke, so I will be more cautious when I talk to you next time. Just like my brother's almost There are doubts in every sentence, but in fact, the senior brother himself admits that he has been doubted unjustly."

Me: "In contrast, my master and your ancestors have never lied to me, and they never joked with me, so I will believe every word he says first. Even if it sounds unbelievable, even if it is said that I If I believe that others will laugh, I will believe it first and admit that I believe it. Because long-term experience tells me that my master will not play tricks on me, and what he said must be credible to me.”

Pei Douxing: "I, I also want to be trusted that much."

Me: "Impossible, you already have a criminal record with me. But you don't have to worry about it, we can establish a relationship that can be joked, and 'not taking it seriously' is also a way of getting along. Believe every word, this pair of talking The latter is actually a lot of pressure, and you don't need to bear this kind of pressure."

3481_ are all fake

Pei Douxing looked a little sad.

Me: "Here, this is what I taught you as your elder: be responsible for your own words and deeds. Some things may not be wrong, but maybe you don't want to bear the consequences, so..."

Pei Douxing: "I should be more cautious and stronger. I should not easily make mistakes that I don't want to bear the consequences, and after making mistakes, I should be able to bear the consequences that I don't want it to happen, but after all, it has already happened."

Me: "Well. But really don't mind too much. In fact, for most people, I will think about what they say. I didn't treat you like that before because I was too impressed with you as 'a child who needs to be taken care of'. In fact, that is another stereotype, and the reality is that you are already a teenager, not too young, and I should have learned to treat you with a more equal attitude. Between friends, a little joke, some Small deceptions are normal."

Pei Douxing still looked unhappy, but she didn't seem to want to continue this topic, so she turned to talk about the entanglement between the old sister and Senior Sister Gan Qi.

Pei Douxing: "Multi-angle relationship. Aunt Gan and Uncle Leng have a crush on each other, but Aunt Gan refuses to admit it directly, and has been hanging on Uncle Leng, and Uncle Leng is a little at a loss. At this time, because my beast master is studying, Master and Master Leng Uncle had a lot of contact, Master Leng expressed his appreciation to Master, Aunt Gan became jealous, and started to find fault with Master, Master explained several times, got impatient, and said angrily, "So what if I have an affair with Leng Bi?" What the hell, are you two Taoist couples?' Afterwards, Aunt Gan took a very strong aim at Master."

Pei Douxing: "However, in the process of targeting, Master Leng seems to have been ignored. Apart from using it as a prop for anger, Aunt Gan and Master seldom talk to him. Aunt Gan and Master are more willing to get close to each other."

... I would say that children in their teens pay special attention to this aspect and make up their minds.

I contacted Bao to inquire about Shi Nihan, a professional beast master: "Ask you something, about my sister and Senior Sister Gan Qi."

Shi Nihan understood in seconds: "The rumors that are popular now are all false, including those that Junior Sister Pei Douxing knows are also false."

Me: "What is it really?"

Shi Nihan: "Second Young Master, I am actually very willing to tell you, but I am afraid of being punished because I am under the care of Uncle Lengbi."

Me: "Where's your master? I remember your master is Uncle Qiangxuan, right?"

Shi Nihan: "Yes, it's... the beast master. He went to find a chance for his precious spirit beast, and the return date is yet to be determined."

3482_ Fighting geese all day long and finally being pecked by geese

After Shi Nihan entered the inner sect, he just got rid of the suppressed cultivation state and entered the foundation building period. These few years are the critical moment for laying the foundation, but the master ran away?

Me: "Where are your brothers and sisters who share the same master?"

Shi Nihan: "Going to do the task..."

Me: "...didn't you investigate before becoming a teacher?"

Shi Nihan: "Fighting geese all day long and being pecked by geese... I paid all my attention to Jianxiu Peak. I only think that the beast masters are calm, patient and good-tempered. Any senior will be a good master... But in fact, my master is also a good teacher." It's really not bad, at least he found me an acting master before abandoning me. Uncle Lengbi is... pretty good."

Being under the fence, the tone is tight.well.

Me: "If you are bullied, go to the Disciplinary Office to file a complaint. Although how to teach apprentices depends on the personal judgment of the masters, there is no uniform standard, but there are still some basic requirements. If you are too irresponsible, you can apply to terminate your master-student relationship. Taking advantage of the strong dizzy master uncle has not given you the actual lecture."

Shi Nihan: "Actually, I have already taught a class, such as Sui Yuan. It's quite fun. Don't worry, Second Young Master, I won't wrong myself. Although it's not convenient for me to tell you directly about what you asked, I can tell you who knows the inside story , your other nephew, Zeng Qi."

Me: "That silly boy?"

Shi Nihan: "Don't underestimate him... Well, he is indeed stupid, but he doesn't think complicatedly. This matter requires simple thinking, and those who spread rumors think too much."

I tried to ask Zeng Qi.

Zeng Qi's first words hit me hard. He asked, "Master Lengbi...should I be called Uncle Shi?"

I'm."

Zeng Qi: "Oh...he...I don't know him."

Me: "Do you know Ganqi, the instrument of the Yuanying period? You should be called Shigu."

Zeng Qi: "Which one is the hammer that has just been refined?"

Me: "I don't know if it was just refined, but she is indeed using a hammer now."

Zeng Qi: "I fought with Master."

Me: "Why did you fight?"

Zeng Qi: "Because I like to fight, in order to test new refined products. Aunt Gan also used Aunt Miao to test refined products. Many refined products, beast masters have also been used as experimental products. By the way, there are also special products for Taoist companions. And the quasi-taoist’s test product, called... I don’t remember what it’s called, but Duan Yanzhou received a toy of the same series.”

3483_ not fun

Duan Yanzhou is the son of Duan Zhe and Yan Gui—unfortunately, I missed his birth—four spiritual roots, this spiritual root is not very good according to Yunxiazong's acceptance standards, but there are precedents for accepting through the back door.The point is that if one has spiritual roots and can cultivate, the foundation can still be built in Yunxia Sect. Afterwards, before entering the foundation stage, it will be decided whether to go through the back door or choose another sect.

During Duan Zhe's pregnancy, everyone didn't have the awareness to take good care of the pregnant husband, but after the child was born, everyone had a correct awareness of taking care of the child—the correct awareness of leaving the child's parents aside and replacing them by themselves.

Some Nascent Soul Stages even tried to snatch their children, relying on their cultivation being higher than Duan Zhe and Yan Gui's—but they didn't succeed.The novice parents rely on the Disciplinary Office. If they can't beat themselves, there are also colleagues who can turn to them for help, especially Elder Pei.

When I was born, there were people who wanted to snatch the child. Of course, at that time, they only stayed in 'thinking'.Otherwise, what else can we do?Do something with Elder Pei?

In fact, those who snatched the child didn't really want to take the child as their own, they just wanted to play for two days by themselves.The mood is similar to seeing a new toy. After the freshness wears off, you will obediently return it.

Senior Sister Yan Gui: "Even if they don't return it, this idea of ​​'robbing' must be severely punished!"

The staff of the Disciplinary Department said that they would be severely punished, so even if they brought private goods, they would definitely be able to find a serious reason for the punishment, so after a round of publicity was caught, the others stopped.

someone said:

"Children are not fun. They are noisy. They are not... beautiful."

"The point is still not beautiful?"

"No, noisy is also the point. The second son was very quiet when he was a child, watching our movements with his eyes open and unblinking, his heart is about to melt."

"However, Second Young Master is not a normal child. He has adult thinking since he was born."

"But the ignorance of this world is similar to that of a normal child, and his eyes are full of curiosity. People can't help but find new and interesting things to show him every day."

"At that time, it was easy to find new things for the second son. He almost saw everything fresh, but now he can't do it anymore. He always looks like this: 'Oh, this, as long as you like it, I need me to tell you about it. Is there a source that describes it in detail? 'Wow, I don't need to...well, well, I do sometimes."

"No matter how ignorant you are of this world, after all, the second son lived for more than 30 years before, not completely blank, at least it is impossible for him to cry like a real baby. When he wants something or hates something , even if he can’t speak for a while, he will think of other ways to clearly tell the people around him, instead of using crying as a reminder to make others guess.”