Origin

"Normalization ()"

In fact, some things need to be carefully observed, while some things are obvious. Wu Zhongyuan grew up in a rural area. He is very clear about the advantages of rural people, but he does not like to categorize people specifically, because rural people and rural people It's not the same, it doesn't mean that there are any differences between rural people in different regions, or even people in the same village are different.

Diligence is an excellent quality of most rural people, but there are also a lot of lazy guys squatting on the wall, but overall they are more diligent. In fact, it is human instinct to like to relax and dislike work, and diligence is an excellent character that goes against animal instincts. In fact, in urban areas There are also hard-working people here, but compared to the two, the working environment of rural people is worse and the intensity of physical labor is greater.

Furthermore, rural people are relatively simple. Because they look at and observe objectively from a personal perspective, they do not need to selectively observe and then exaggerate one-sidedly like journalists who are tasked with propaganda. To eulogize and praise, in fact, simplicity can be understood as a more direct way of expression. To put it bluntly, it means that there are not as many ways of expression as city people. To say that it is more comfortable to get along with rural people than with city people, it is not necessarily true, because some Almost naked expressions may make people feel uncomfortable.

In fact, roughly dividing people into rural people and urban people is not an objective attitude in itself. It is no different from those trolls who randomly fire map cannons, because there are hard-working people everywhere and frugal people everywhere. There are kind people everywhere, there are helpful people everywhere, there are indifferent people everywhere, there are unreasonable people everywhere, and there are people who benefit themselves at the expense of others. In the final analysis, there are only good and bad individuals, not good and bad individuals. Good and bad groups.

When he got up early the next day, Wu Zhongyuan first went to see the mule. It was the mule whose reins were wrapped around the stake yesterday and couldn't drink water.

This time Wu Zhongyuan not only helped it get around the reins, but also moved the position of the wooden stake to ensure that it would not get entangled again.

Who is to blame for this? Should I blame the mule? No, the owner of the mule should be blamed. The mule itself is a fool and can do any stupid thing. As the owner of the mule, you should think of and understand its stupidity in advance, and then take better care of it.

People are different. Most people’s thinking is rigid. If you look at it from other people’s point of view, it would just be to take the reins off the mule. What kind of truth could be hidden in this? But Wu Zhongyuan was feeding the mule. After standing next to the stone trough for a long time, his first thought was that the strong should face the stupidity of the weak and give them enough tolerance and more careful care.

Looking down on others is a sign of lack of cultivation. If this logic is true, Wu Zhongyuan is not a cultivated person, because at this time, he already looks down on most people. To put it more bluntly, most people in his eyes They are not smart enough, but what this kind of thinking brings is not a sense of superiority and contempt, but greater kindness and greater tolerance.

This kind of thinking is difficult for ordinary people to understand. For example, if an old lady fell down and she kindly went to help her, but was blackmailed, an ordinary person would definitely complain and wish that it would snow in June, as if she had been greatly wronged and unfair. , but he wouldn't, because he had thought that the old lady might do this before he helped her.

After getting off work in the evening, I met an old man selling vegetables. I bought the remaining vegetables out of good intentions. It turned out that the vegetables sold by the other person were mixed with some defective products of poor quality, so I felt sad again. The Taoist's heart is not ancient, and he is often disappointed. But he won't, because helping others is just because he wants to help others, and it has nothing to do with the person being helped.

Furthermore, if you treat someone of the opposite sex or a friend sincerely and are betrayed and deceived as a result, ordinary people will definitely feel aggrieved to death and feel that the other person's conscience has been eaten by dogs. You are the worst good person in the world, but He won't, because in his opinion, it is very common for ordinary people to commit betrayal and deception.

What is the essence of looking up to others? The essence of looking up to others is to have high requirements for the other person's character and morality. The essence of looking down on others is to have very low requirements for the other person's character and morality. To repay kindness with enmity, to repay kindness with hatred, to be ungrateful, etc. Give adequate forgiveness and understanding for bad actions. As for those who look down on the working people even though they have a lot of money, that’s not looking down on others, that’s showing lack of self-cultivation.

Giving kindness without repaying it, even if you know that the other person may be ungrateful, but still helping others with a kind heart, this is the pattern.

Don't ask for sincerity in exchange for sincerity, love a person of the opposite sex to death, give everything to him, even if the other person leaves with someone else in the end, you will feel at ease, calm and indifferent, this is the pattern.

You were frozen, I held you in my arms to save you, but you bit me, but I didn’t regret holding you in my arms, this was the pattern.

Any effort that tries to get something in return is not a sincere effort. The essence is just a desire for reciprocal exchange.

As a person with infinitely powerful abilities, you must have a pair of eyes that can see through the good and evil in people's hearts, and a tolerant heart that will never disappoint the world.

Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan was greatly relieved. He left the mule and went to the home of the fat woman who was beaten last night. Although he did not use spiritual energy last night, he used all his strength to see how badly the fat woman was beaten. No.

The honest man was not at home, and the fat woman was lying on the kang, with several of her poker friends next to her. The fat woman was crying and scolding the honest man for having no conscience. She was stunned by the widow and wanted to beat her to death and live with the widow. He also scolded his mother-in-law for being a snake-hearted old man who watched his son beat him but did not come to start a fight. The harsh words and vicious words are outrageous.

Wu Zhongyuan did not treat this fat woman with tolerance just because he had just gained enlightenment. Tolerance does not mean treating everyone with a bodhisattva heart. Just like the way of heaven, the sun and moon shine on the earth, and the rain moistens all people. This is kindness, but others Forgetting that there was lightning and thunder, he hated this fat woman yesterday and still hates her today.

I originally wanted to use spiritual energy to intensify the pain of the fat woman, but after thinking about it I gave up the idea. Forget it, I was beaten hard enough last night, please spare her.

The ancients said that no one is perfect and no one is perfect. Everyone has shortcomings, even gods are no exception, let alone mortals. Even the most good people may not have never done bad things in their lives. Most people have In a community where good and evil are intertwined, good people must have a bad side, but bad people may not necessarily have a good side. This fat woman falls into this category. Even if you hold a microscope, you won't be able to find any good points in her.

After leaving the house, I continued to wander around the streets and found that there were a lot less people on the streets today. I didn’t understand what was going on at first, but later I found out that today was the first market after the New Year, and many villagers had gone to the market.

On a whim, I decided to go to the market with him.

Since it is the first market after the New Year, the New Year atmosphere has not yet dissipated, and there are not all the stalls selling goods. However, there are many people going to the market, and they are bustling and rubbing shoulders.

Once here, it was inconvenient to be invisible. Wu Zhongyuan emerged from nowhere and walked into the crowd.

Wu Zhongyuan grew up in the countryside and is no stranger to going to the market. His favorite thing to do as a child was to go to the market with his master, but this time he went to the village market with a completely different feeling. The delicacies that were full of temptation before seemed to be different now. But it is the one with the strongest malignant smell. The first one is fried dough sticks, followed by pork head meat, and roast duck and chicken that cost more than ten yuan each. In addition, there are a lot of foods with malignant smells. These foods last for a while. It's true that eating it won't kill you, but it will slowly damage the body's liver, which detoxifies. When the liver is overwhelmed, the disease will break out.

There is no such thing as high quality and low price. Expensive ones may not necessarily be good, but good ones must be expensive. Youtiao are cheap because they are made of gutter oil. Pork heads are cheap because they are imported foreign garbage that has been refrigerated for many years. Roast duck and roast chicken are cheap because They are all produced by hormones and drugs. Many people think that eggs are safe. In fact, eggs from chicken farms also have extremely serious drug residues. It is easy to distinguish whether they are alarmist or not. A domestic egg and a cooked egg from a chicken farm. Then put it in front of a not very hungry dog ​​to see which one the dog eats.

But there are always some things that are relatively safe. Although some fruits contain pesticide residues, it is not harmful to eat them occasionally. Wu Zhongyuan bought some fruits that were not available in ancient times. He did not say hello to Wang Xinran and others before he came back. Everyone was always worried. Inevitably, sending some fruits back can let Wang Xinran and others know that he is safe and relaxed now.

I left the market carrying the fruit and was just about to find a deserted place to teleport away when I suddenly heard two young men talking at the exit of the market. One of them bought a car and was introducing his new car to his friends. Mainly introduce the functions and configurations of your car. In short, you are satisfied with everything.

After listening to his introduction, the other party asked casually, "Don't you want to buy a BMW? Why did you buy a BYD?" ’

Then that person slandered BMW in various ways and praised his own car in various ways. In short, he just wanted to prove that his choice was correct.

Ordinary people may see this person as sour grapes, but what Wu Zhongyuan sees is self-deception and surrender. There is no shame in buying a cheap car because financial conditions do not allow it. After all, a car is a means of transportation. Although BYD's safety performance It’s not as good as imported cars, but it’s not like the so-called Xia Li, which has ranked first in car accident fatalities for many years.

The saddest thing is that this person gradually lowered his goals in the process of chasing his dreams, and chose to succumb and compromise under the pressure of reality. In addition, people will always try their best to find various reasons and excuses to prove that their choice is correct. This is self-deception. It is not shameful to marry a princess at first, but to marry a village girl in the end. , it is shameful to marry a village woman and then attack and slander the princess as inferior to a village woman. This is very sad.

After stopping for a moment, Wu Zhongyuan teleported to a deserted place and disappeared, arriving at the place where he first came. From here, he used the teleportation teleportation in reverse direction to deliver these fruits directly to the vicinity of Zhongtian Temple.

After sending away the fruit, Wu Zhongyuan did not return to the village, but teleported thousands of miles to the county seat of Huang County...