Origin

"Normalization ()"

It is a common habit of the world to like to watch the excitement. An honest man beating his wife attracted a large number of villagers to watch. When Wu Zhongyuan left, there were still many people coming here to watch the excitement after hearing the news.

Wu Zhongyuan wandered the streets of the village, looking for the next target of observation. He really liked watching people go on blind dates. The essence of blind dates was that stranger men and women came into contact with each other, and after reaching a consensus, they formed partners and reproduced offspring. However, it was a common behavior. Common behaviors have certain observation value.

However, it seems that the blind date does not happen at night. After wandering for a while without seeing the target, I started to visit the house. At this time, the meal was not over yet. Many people gathered together to drink, and some had eaten early, gathering in small and small groups. Play cards.

When he wandered to the east of the village, Wu Zhongyuan heard the cry of a child. He was crying quite miserably, so he followed the sound and looked for it. It was a father beating the child. The child was about eleven or twelve years old. He was a boy. He looked like a boy. He got into trouble and was being beaten with a stick by his father.

The father had an angry look on his face and beat him very hard. After Wu Zhongyuan listened for a moment, he realized that it was not a big deal, but that the child went out to play overtime today and did not complete the homework assigned by the teacher.

Chinese people believe that filial sons emerge from under the stick. In fact, this idea is very wrong. Children should not be overly spoiled, but there is no need to be too strict. Children are children after all, and adults may not have enough self-control, let alone a child. child.

After beating the child, the father threw down the stick and went out to drink, leaving the mother coaxing the child. He just said that your father beat you for your own good. I hope you can be successful when you grow up and don't be like your parents. You can only farm in the village.

The child nodded with tears in his eyes, looking sensible. As for whether he really agreed with his mother's statement, no one knew, because even gods don't know what other people are thinking.

Wu Zhongyuan strongly disagrees with this kind of education method. The reason is very simple. Fathers and mothers are not qualified to demand such strict demands on their children, because they themselves are not good enough as individuals, but they demand excessively strict demands on their children. The essence of this is that It's just two useless old birds who impose their will on the little bird. They can't even fly two miles, but they insist on forcing the little bird to fly a hundred miles.

In fact, if you don’t want your children to farm in the countryside, the easiest way is for parents to go out of the countryside themselves. When the big birds go out, the little birds will naturally go out. As parents, you can’t make demands on your children that you can’t even do. It’s best to The best education method is to lead by example. I flew ten thousand miles, so you can fly eight thousand miles for me. This is what a competent parent should do.

To be fair, most parents are incompetent and cannot lose the most basic objectivity and fairness in order to eulogize father's love or praise mother's love. Why do many children become rebellious in adolescence? It's not because the child has become bad, but because the child has grown up, has his own consciousness, and no longer blindly submits to the incorrect education methods of his parents. In fact, as long as the early education is proper and the child is convinced, the rebellion in adolescence is completely avoidable.

Some things are just chaos, and there is absolutely no need to delve into them, but some things are worth pondering. Take a father spanking his child as an example. A father is the leader of a family and the captain of the family boat. If something goes wrong in this family , he has to bear the main responsibility. The greater the power of the leader, the greater the responsibility. The final direction of the sheep does not depend on the majority of followers, but depends on the will of the leader. To put it bluntly, it is power. The will of a few people at the top determines the fate of thousands of people. Take himself as an example. He was the king of the human race in ancient times, and his words directly determined the fate of the entire human race.

Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan had a vague idea, and hurriedly teleported back to the brigade headquarters where he had settled before. He sat down next to the stove and closed his eyes to capture the vague thoughts that flashed through his mind. Fortunately, he found them. The feeling just now, the thought just now is that the core figure determines the fate of thousands of people, and wants to change thousands of people,

No need to change each of them individually, just their core characters.

The same is true for the change of spiritual energy. Previously, his method was only for specific spiritual energy, directly regulating and controlling a large number of individual spiritual energy. To be more specific, he controlled a thousand or ten thousand spiritual energy at a time. Although it was also very powerful, But there is still a certain limit. If you want to further improve your ability to control spiritual energy, you should not herd the sheep, but catch the leader.

What is a sheep? The five elements aura is the five sheep, and these five sheep are derived from the two giants of Yin and Yang. If you can find one of the five sheep of metal, wood, water, fire, and earth, you can control one-fifth of the world. If you can find out, you can control one-fifth of the world. The two big heads of Yin and Yang can control the entire real world condensed by breath.

But the five big sheep and the two giants are not five specific individuals and two larger individuals composed of these five independent individuals, but five and larger groups derived from the five elements and yin and yang. Two commonalities.

Regardless of yin and yang, just talk about the five elements. These five common characteristics can also be understood as five trends. If you want to control the trend, the most effective way is not to exert external force to try to change the trend, but to put yourself in it and lead the trend yourself. To put it bluntly, you want to turn yourself into one of the five big sheep.

If he wants to join this team and become the leader of this team, he must first understand this team. However, the current environment he is in is not suitable for him to conduct deeper deductions. He can only temporarily store this idea in his mind and strengthen it. , leaving it to be extended in the future.

He is a Taiyuan cultivator and has super memory, so he can store his own thoughts, but it is difficult for ordinary people to do this. Sometimes an idea he has is easily lost in the chaos of distracting thoughts. There is a saying: This is actually the principle of reviewing the past and learning the new. For a better idea, a better plan, or what kind of goal you want to achieve, you need to strengthen it frequently, and always remind yourself not to forget it. Only in this way can you Move unswervingly towards the set goals.

One of the most common mistakes people make is that their goals are not firm enough. They often make random adjustments to the goals based on objective circumstances. At the beginning, they vowed not to marry a girl who was not a ginseng girl from Changbai Mountain and cut off her fingers. After setting off, they encountered various problems and often adjusted their route. In the end, he went to Hainan Island and married a fisherman's girl. What was this? This is a departure from the original intention, a drift with the crowd, a compromise with fate, and a sluggish approach to life.

Enlightenment is an extremely complex thinking activity that needs to be restrained by rational logic and diverged by perceptual thinking. Thinking that the human nature of the world is not stable enough and often adjusts the path forward, Wu Zhongyuan suddenly thought of another problem, that is, when he was changing his body. His mental state is a very stable state, and he knows very clearly what he wants to become. If the image in his mind is blurry when he changes, he may not know what he will become.

This shows that the stronger and more stable a person's willpower is, the more things he can master and control. People can only have things they understand and can control. If a person can only drive a tractor, even if you give him a Ferrari, he will He also had to drive into the ditch because he couldn't control it.

To judge others by oneself, the main reason why I have not yet given birth to a Nascent Soul, or have the ability to recreate the past and present, is that my will is not firm enough, my consciousness is not strong enough, my knowledge and experience are not rich enough, and I am not familiar with the world. Lack of adequate understanding.

Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan did not continue to spread his thoughts, but took back his thoughts, picked up a shovel and added a few coals to the stove, then ignited them with fire spiritual energy, then filled the kettle with water and placed it on it. He will come back to rest later.

It was still very cold at night in early spring, and there were no people on the street at seven or eight o'clock. Wu Zhongyuan came to a house again. The men in the house were watching TV in the east room, while a group of women gathered in the west room, mostly middle-aged women. Most of them, including a young girl.

This group of middle-aged women seemed to be relatives of the girl, and her mother was among them. They were trying to persuade the girl, using the tone of people who had been there and their own experiences to advise the girl on which young man she should choose.

The girl originally wanted to choose Zhang San, who was daring and aggressive, because she liked this type of man. Later, under the earnest and well-intentioned persuasion of this group of relatives, she gradually changed her mind and began to prefer the law-abiding Li Si.

In the end, the seventh aunt and the eighth aunt left with happy faces, while Wu Zhongyuan also quietly retreated, with disappointment and regret.

You must have a backbone as a person and trust your own feelings. Whatever you like at the beginning will be what you will like in the end. People who like horses at the beginning cannot choose cows just because they were kicked by horses. As for horses, they stop eating because of choking. It is a taboo to do either left or right, which will cause endless troubles.

The biggest mistakes in the world are often made by people who think they are right. We cannot deny the good intentions of these seven aunts and eight aunts, but they are just a group of ignorant women, and their lives are not successful. Experience and opinions actually have little reference value. They don’t even understand the simple truth that decisions should be made by those who bear the consequences. They do bad things with good intentions.

The most disgusting thing is that this girl's mother even used words like "You must make me mad," "If you want to marry him, don't come in again" to force her daughter to follow her own advice. She is another incompetent person. Parents who insist on letting their children pay for their own ideas are so selfish.

The girl herself is also clueless, loyal and filial, and would rather make her parents feel better than herself. This kind of person is very scary. The most terrible thing is that she takes everyone's opinions as a reference. What is the point of listening to others' advice and having enough to eat? , it also depends on who is giving the advice. Only successful people are qualified to persuade others, and the advice of losers is worthless.

At around ten o'clock in the evening, Wu Zhongyuan returned to his place of residence. In fact, he was not sleepy, but at this time, people had already started to rest, and what he saw when entering the house through the wall was often inappropriate for children.

The clearer his mind became, the more smoky and devastated he saw. Wu Zhongyuan lay on the bench and took a deep breath. Tomorrow he would try to change his observation angle and look for simplicity, truth, goodness and beauty...