Chapter 447 Su’s father’s conflicting mind
In fact, there are a lot of people who cannot afford to buy a house now. Since my daughter is capable of doing things herself, it is natural for her to raise other people's demands.
So should he be angry or proud?
Su's father would come. On the one hand, he felt indignant, and on the other hand, he felt that his daughter had grown up and had abilities. The two emotions were swirling in his heart, and Su's father couldn't tell which one was stronger.
Not only his family, but everyone around him said it was his fault.
Even the child Qin Xiaowan next door said he couldn't understand it when he told him about it: "How can a grown man want a woman's house? It's not his mother!"
Bai Mengling also advised: "No matter how much relatives take care of each other, I have never heard of a cousin asking for a cousin's house. If I tell others, people will only think that Qingqing's child has no one to support him, and he will definitely be looked down upon in the future."
He would have gone out and said that no one in his family cared about him and wanted to get public opinion on his side.
Let people know what their daughter has done and how the mother-in-law made her fulfill her filial piety. Let everyone comment together, and then ask Amelia Su to bow her head.
As a result, people around him, even if they didn't put it bluntly, suggested that he was wrong. .
What's wrong with him? What's wrong with being filial to your parents? Doesn't being filial to your parents mean listening to your parents?
Aren’t children supposed to obey their parents?
It’s not like you don’t have a house to live in at home, and you forget about your parents and relatives when you get some material foundation. It’s just a room, why can’t you let it out? We are all relatives, connected by blood.
Everyone around him looked at him like a fool - even if you said that the house was for your mother to live in, everyone still thought it was somewhat reasonable, but for your nephew? It’s not like you don’t have a son. What fool would do this?
However, the people around me are very objective: "I used to think that your Qingqing is a capable person. It doesn't matter if you study well and go to university, you can make money and buy a house by yourself at a young age. He is even more capable than my kid."
Father Su...
"Your daughter is still studying, right? She can make money by herself by studying. She is still young and knows not to spend money carelessly. Buying a house is a serious matter. As parents, we can just watch it. Times have changed, and it is still treated as a child's thing. Your own?"
Father Su...
Not only was he isolated at home, he was also attacked in his circle of friends.
He didn't know how this happened. He didn't tell him at work, but one day his boss actually told him about it.
Su's father is not young anymore, and he has never been criticized by his boss for family matters in his life. Although he said it quietly in private, the feeling in his heart is really unpleasant.
"Director Ding, how did you know this?" Su's father swore to God that he was not a fool. He just complained about his daughter in front of a few close friends and neighbors. How could the leader know about such a big deal?
Now that you know it, there's no point in telling it to yourself, right? After all, this is their family's private matter.
Director Ding also said a little helplessly: "It depends on your daughter's ability. My dad met his old comrades and thought your daughter was very nice. He also wanted to tell me about my nephew, so he wanted me to find out. Ask about your family."
Who is Director Ding?
Who is his father?
Even in his wildest dreams, Su's father would never have imagined that his family could reach such a family. The only difference between them was not a college diploma.
At that time, his heart felt as if he had been beaten by an ice hammer, with all kinds of feelings in his heart.
He also couldn't figure out what the leader meant. He was accustomed to criticizing his own children, "I also understand that my mother is old and the children are not sensible, so you are laughing."
It's a joke, it's a joke.
Director Ding saw Su's father's joke.
Director Ding didn't say anything clearly and asked him a special question: "What if your mother wants you to give something from the factory to your nephew one day, will you give it to him out of filial piety?"
Su's father suddenly felt something was wrong and said sternly: "The things in the factory belong to the public and cannot be given away casually."
Probably knowing what the leader meant, Su's father argued: "But my daughter was born by myself, so I, as the father, can still make the final decision on her things."
Director Ding gave him a big eye roll, "You gave birth to a child right, but she is your daughter and not your slave. What belongs to her is yours?"
Su's father is the kind of person who works conscientiously in the workplace, but his thoughts are a bit stubborn, but it sounds like the little girl Su Qing is really good, at least better than her father.
To put it simply, Director Ding's meaning is that you should not use your daughter's interests to please the people you want to please. If you want to please, you should use your own things.
"Think about it, if your daughter's things belong to you, who will dare to be your son-in-law in the future? It's enough to be filial to you, but you have to be filial to your peers. Where does the logic come from?"
These words made Su's father feel a little uneasy.
Growing up in such a family, his instinct was very clear - his mother didn't like him and preferred his eldest brother, so he had to do well in the hope that his mother would value him more.
But what are you doing now? Be a father that your daughter doesn’t like?
Putting aside this matter between father and daughter, she was his sweetheart who grew up in his hands.
On the one hand, I feel that my sweetheart no longer listens to me, because he has grown up and his wings have become hard, and he no longer recognizes him as the head of the family. On the other hand, I feel that what the leader said makes sense. If this is the case, which man will find him? A woman like this is a partner?
He was originally a bit weird about his daughter not being able to lower her head voluntarily, but now that his daughter's back is straight, he feels that such a daughter is the best.
As a parent, you want your children to obey you but also want your children to have their own opinions. This is such a contradiction.
In other words, many parents want to maintain their own authority, but also think that their children can truly challenge their authority and then take over. This is their continuation.
Both parents came to pick him up, which was a compromise. Su's father's desperate struggle had no effect. In the end, he promised Su Qing not to give the house to others to live in. Su Qing went home with her parents.
On the way, Father Su couldn't help but ask: "You don't live in your house, it's empty, what do you want to do?"
Su Qing had already thought about it, "Now that I have a place to live when I go home for the holidays, I want to rent out that room."
In fact, Su Qing was quite regretful after buying it. With the little money she had, she could only buy a house like that. It had no heating or running water. She couldn't make a house livable like Lin Jing's house. Otherwise, she still wants to make money to clean up the house and make the house look the way she likes.