Reborn as a rich woman: rich and leisurely

Su Qing and Shao Xiuqing felt that they seemed to understand what Lin Jing had said before, but they also wondered whether they had understood it wrong.

Sure enough, morality needs to be restrained by law.

Sister Jingjing's moral level made them instantly feel that they had too little knowledge?

It is true that I have too little knowledge.

If you meet someone under the right circumstances, wouldn’t you want to live forever?

Lasting forever is beautiful, but only if the other person thinks so too.

"What's that expression on your face? I'm not saying that when he goes abroad, I will find many others. I just told my mother that in addition to being chosen, I can also choose.

I like that I am with him because I like him, not because I want to rely on him. Liking this kind of thing is emotional support and can produce better emotional value, but no one needs it. "

The two little girls who were new to the world were even more confused after hearing this. Su Qing didn't understand and asked: "What is emotional value?"

Lin Jing couldn't explain the term clearly, she just said: "For example, when I talk to you, everything I say is interesting, and I feel happy, comfortable and stress-free with you. Then this kind of emotional value is positive value. , but if we say something that either you are against me or I am protesting against you, or I have to be careful with everything I say, I will feel tired of getting along with you, and then this emotional value is a negative value."

Su Qing thinks it makes sense. Everyone is comfortable with each other when they are with the person they like. Even if they say something wrong, the other person will not mind at all. The most important thing is that she knows that the other person does not mind, even if the same words are said to others, they will be disgusted. , I don’t mind at all if my own people make fun of me.

"But someone like Qin Zichuan can still provide emotional value?" Su Qing was even more curious. They had known each other for so many years. If she hadn't rented Lin Jing's house, she wouldn't even have remembered her as a person. What topics they exchanged It's all between "shut up".

Can someone say "shut up" to a girl? Do you think such a person can provide emotional value?

He was even sure that if he went abroad, Lin Jing would definitely change him.

Those who are close to black are black, and their moral level seems to be declining a bit quickly.

Lin Jing gave her a roll of her eyes, "A is honey, B is arsenic. What you don't like is exactly what I like."

Do you like to speak out so openly? You really consider us best friends.

Su Qing still couldn't think of anything good, "Except for that face."

Lin Jing said: "Height is okay too."

Su Qing... "What else?"

Lin Jing said: "Academic qualifications are also acceptable."

Su Qing... "What else?"

Shao Xiuqing helpfully added: "There is also a local registered permanent residence and a stable job."

Isn’t it just about looking for these hard indicators when looking for a partner?

All good.

But others may value these things, what about Lin Jing? Two unknowing good friends thought it was impossible.

"I said, the most important thing is to provide emotional value." Lin Jing felt that analyzing emotions was really not her strong point. How come this topic changed from going abroad?

Su Qing was too interested in this question. Let alone her, how many girls who knew Qin Zichuan had dreamed of Cinderella meeting the prince? Then after a little contact, I felt that my dream was shattered into pieces.

“What emotional value can he actually give you?”

Lin Jing said: "It's stable."

"Stable?!" Su Qing felt that this answer was even more incredible than Qin Zichuan's. "The stability you are talking about doesn't mean that the inert gas remains unchanged and adapts to all changes. It won't change no matter what? He thinks he can talk to death with just one sentence. Say more."

"That's right." Lin Jing held her chin and thought for a moment: "Actually, good looks are definitely an advantage for a man. If he goes out and smiles more at people, even if he doesn't do anything, is he the one who is dreaming? More?"

Su Qing agreed.

"Clearly refuse that you are not interested and only do what you want to do. You can trust what he says and he will listen to what you say. Wouldn't it provide you with emotional stability?"

After more contact, Lin Jing actually felt very clearly that he didn't like those girls who approached him. Those girls didn't understand him at all. He didn't want to hurt anyone, but practice told him not to refuse. There is more hessian.

Whether it was Su Qing and Kuang Rulan's filters that were broken, or Zhu Hongying hated herself, they all seemed to think that he was unkind rather than a bad character.

Oh, now the scumbag might be me.

"Every carrot and cabbage really has its own preferences." Su Qing was not very accepting of Lin Jing's preference, but she understood.

Shao Xiuqing was even more confused, "Since you like him so much, why do you still trust him to study abroad?"

"People change, especially in foreign countries where people are very open-minded. Men and women can live together without getting married. Some people even have many dates."

The biggest problem that people worry about is not their current situation, but that people will change.

Get better? Go bad? No one can say for sure whether it's just the oil or salt that doesn't come in.

Just because people change as they live, her mother and eldest brother are both worried.

"So people still have to rely on themselves and learn to love themselves first."

If you want to fall in love, you have to rely on yourself. Do you need to love yourself first?

Both young men felt that they had too little knowledge. Is it because the Lin family's tutor wanted to be different from their own tutor?

Zhang Cuiying, who had already left, felt an inexplicable tremor in her heart: Is someone talking about me?

"Isn't it selfish to love yourself?" The education that Shao Xiuqing has received the most in her life is: she is a loser, and she must be good to her brother so that someone will support her in the future.

Girls are getting married and must learn to do all housework, otherwise they will be disliked by their husband's family in the future.

Then what comes to mind is dedication, self-sacrifice for others.

But she felt that Lin Jing was really better like this, but what she was thinking in her heart and the education she received in her mind seemed to be constantly pulling at both ends.

"Girls are not losers. Look, my mother must have made a profit." Speaking with facts, Lin Jing was confident when she said this.

"As for dedication, there is nothing wrong with sacrificing oneself for others, but these should be done with the approval of one's own heart.

For example, if someone in the family is sick and needs money for medical treatment, I am willing to lend money to help. But if someone gambles and does not pay back the money and his legs are broken, then I am willing to have his legs broken. The result may be unfortunate consequences for others, but I definitely choose differently. "

"Self-interest is not only about money and fame, but also about one's own recognition of oneself." How many people can't get over the hurdle in their own hearts?

If you recognize yourself and love yourself, you don't need to prove to others that you are worthy of being loved, and you don't have to worry that the sky will fall if others don't love you.

Less internal friction means taking care of yourself.