It’s No Use Calling Me Mom

Chapter 323: I’M Not A Good Mom 13

“It was said that this was the transportation fee to send him to the industrial park, I said how could it be used for so much.” The nanny sister holding a few banknotes was moved to tears: ” Wa’er said that the rest of the money will let me buy some red dates, lotus seeds and white fungus to make soup.”

Wang Qingqing was very relieved to hear what the nanny said. The nanny watched her grow up. The two got along well and had a very good relationship. Wang Qingqing called the nanny “eldest sister” and followed her face to face. Called “Auntie”.

This is the nanny hired by the family, and the relationship is close. She asks her to pick up and drop off every day. Even if she doesn’t give a penny, it is justified, but Wang Qingqing has taught face to face. Don’t just ask for it. When someone pays for you, you should know how to repay the other party.

The nanny eldest sister may be in menopause, and often feel that she is flustered and short of breath.

Wang Qingqing is most tired of eating sticky things like bird’s nest tremella, red dates, tremella and lotus seed soup. This soup, I bought the ingredients myself and made it only once in a while.

If he told the nanny eldest sister simply and bluntly that the hundreds of dollars were given because she made her work more, the eldest sister would definitely not accept it.

Now that the tip is wrapped in a warm coat, the nanny is willing to accept it and is grateful. In terms of how to behave in the world, the face has already realized a bit of it Essence.

Wang Qingqing has always been sincere about her upbringing. Since the divorce, she has been busy starting a business. She has a nanny at home. Mama Mei also said that if she is too busy, she will send her to her. Helping to take, Wang Qingqing didn’t leave Mianmian aside, she took the child wherever she went.

It is naturally very troublesome to go out with a child, but it can also quickly find the problem and correct it. Besides, the child will follow her when she sees Tianer, and she can learn to deal with people, talk, and do things.

Wang Qingqing’s temperament is not the one that spoils children, and she is not the child’s real mother. When educating children, she naturally brings one-third of the rationality of staying out of the way. If the child makes a mistake, he will be punished. It’s good to praise, so it’s just right, compared to children of the same age, the performance is very outstanding.

Only a month after the start of school, the head teacher accepted his fate as the monitor, and he said to Wang Qingqing during a telephone home visit: “I have been working for seven or eight years, and I have never brought a face to face. Such a nimble student, this child not only has a high IQ, but also a low EQ. At such a young age, he knows how to deal with the troublemakers in the class with a slap in the face and a sweet jujube. You don’t look like a six- or seven-year-old child, Mama Face, sum up your experience in educating your children, and give some tips to other parents in our class when you hold a parent-teacher meeting.”

The parents’ meeting was held at the end of the term. The teacher really asked Wang Qingqing to come to the stage to tell about her successful experience in educating children, and she became a “children’s child” in the mouths of other parents in the first and third classes.

At the joining ceremony of the next semester of the first grade, the school let him also serve as the squadron captain of the first grade, and when he entered the fourth grade, it broke the graduating class of their school to serve as a young pioneer The captain’s tradition, with three bars.

Mianmian is both a monitor and a team captain, and his studies are also quite good. Comparing the excellent faces, Gang Dian’er makes Liu Minghua sad: “This year is going to take the senior high school entrance examination. The child’s grades are messed up, the class is made up, the heart has been talked about, he has been beaten, scolded and scolded, he has not improved at all, I really can’t do anything about it, Qingqing, you say that this child’s steel Where is the problem?”

Compared with the calm and relaxed mother, Liu Minghua is nothing.

, he secretly clicked his tongue to express his contempt for Liu Minghua’s panic, and then followed Wang Qingqing’s example, showing a dignified expression on his face that he felt empathized with.

“I haven’t lived with my children for a long time. I can’t tell where the problem lies.” Who do you want to get close to, and take a side look? Most children at this age are rebellious and don’t want to communicate with their parents and teachers, but they can talk to their classmates and friends.”

“How can he have close friends.” Liu Minghua sighed: “After so many years of schooling, I have never seen him go to a classmate’s house to play, nor have he brought any classmates or friends home. came.”

Wang Qingqing just wanted to laugh when she heard Liu Minghua’s words. When Liu Minghua sent Gang Dung’er to school, he was expecting him to form his first network of contacts in that private school. According to the current situation It seems that all the wishful thinking has come to nothing, and I don’t know what Liu Minghua feels in his heart.

With such a high online rate, Gang Rong’er is smart, so he won’t fail the exam, just wait until he goes to a key high school.” Wang Qingqing has nothing to do with herself: “Boys are sensible and late, wait for high school. I know that I study hard.”

Gang Jun’er is the remaining 10% who can’t go online, not to mention the city’s four key high schools, even the general high school is hard enough to pass the entrance examination Listening to the conversation of the adults, and thinking about the stubborn and dumb-headed boy who would only fight against him, Liu Minghua deeply regretted that when his ex-wife had a conflict with his mother over the education of the children, he did not firmly stand by his wife.

Where did his mother, Cai Yuzhen, help him take care of the child, and the whole child was ruined. .

Liu Minghua couldn’t express the pain in his heart, suddenly this guy thought he had come up with a brilliant idea, and he opened his eyes to Wang Qingqing: “Qingqing, look at your How good is the face-to-face teaching, and raising children, our mother is really not as good as you, why don’t you let Gang Dung’er live with you.”

jealousy and possessiveness are inherent evils deep in human bones, just like many great treasures do not like their parents to have a second child, Mianmian never wants the steel scorpion to appear in their home, separate from the mother ‘s attention.

Liu Minghua, a father who only appears in front of Mianmian two or three times a year, has always been indifferent to his father-son relationship, and every time he comes to see Mianmian, Liu Minghua has to use steel rods to make it The topic has been chatting with Wang Qingqing for a long time, and he has long been impatient with him.

If it wasn’t for the fact that his mother wanted him to maintain a good relationship with Liu Minghua, he would not hesitate to pay attention to this nominal father.

As a biological father, he didn’t give himself much love, but he actually wanted to send another son over to compete with him. At this moment, the goodwill towards Liu Minghua dropped directly to minus one hundred.

In view of the good tutoring, Mianmian only squeezed the small fork in his hand to hold back the anger in his heart, but in his heart, he has unilaterally cut off bilateral relations with Liu Minghua, and put this person Listed as the first place on his own blacklist for refusing contact.

“You are his mother, he will definitely listen to what you say, you teach him more, there is still one year left for the senior high school entrance examination, and there is still time to work hard.” Liu Minghua was immersed in wishful thinking, at all He didn’t notice that the younger son next to him was gnashing his teeth at him.

“No.” Wang Qingqing really didn’t expect Liu Minghua to be so cheeky to make such a request.

When Gang Chuner was young, she had friction with Cai Yuzhen in order to educate the child, but Liu Minghua took a clear stand on Cai Yuzhen’s side. Now Gang Chun’er is fifteen years old, and she has never been in a bad temper. Personality, behavior, and behavior have long been fixed. If you want to correct it, you must spend a lot of energy. Let’s not mention it for the time being. What if you can’t correct it?

If she takes over the education issues in the future, with Cai Yuzhen’s temperament, if there is a little bad in the future, she will be counted on her.

I am very satisfied with my living conditions, and without this idea and without the energy to prove myself in front of your family, you don’t need to mention it again.”

Wang Qingqing’s indifference was obviously beyond Liu Minghua’s expectations, he was stunned for a moment and then reluctantly persuaded: “Qingqing, it’s about the future of Gang Jun’er, do you have the heart to ignore it? My mother’s side, you Don’t worry, I will communicate with her and I will never let her trouble you again.”

It can be seen that Liu Minghua also knew that Cai Yuzhen was looking for trouble for Mei Qingqing before, Wang Qingqing sneered, and said to Liu Minghua more and more lightly: “Not everyone in your Liu family loves heavy steel more than me. Son? You all have the heart to destroy that child, what can I not bear to watch?”

Liu Minghua did not expect Wang Qingqing to have such an attitude. She sat there for a while not knowing what to say, Wang Qingqing said to him with a sullen face: “You are a highly educated person, and you are even like a habitual child. I can’t see through the truth of killing a child. Be a hands-off shopkeeper and leave the child to your mother for upbringing. There will be today all your own faults, I don’t sympathize with you at all, you can do it yourself.”

Wang Qingqing left Liu Minghua, who was sitting there, and left.

Exiting the door of the dessert shop, Wang Qingqing looked at the woven tourists on the street and said: “Parenting is a profound knowledge and a heavy responsibility, but many people don’t take it seriously. Treating it with contempt and not talking about it, and trying to shirk the responsibility to others at will, such people will surely suffer the consequences of their own actions.”

“Like me, um, what about Liu?” After what happened just now, he didn’t even want to shout “Dad”.

“For example, your father.” Wang Qingqing emphasized “your father” and said face to face with a smile: “Our flower-growing country is a country that pays attention to filial piety. You don’t have to like Liu Minghua, or even hate him, But it’s better to keep these emotions in your heart, and you’re just like that, you know what, stupid kid? Don’t let others catch you first, and take the moral high ground first.”

He lowered his head thoughtfully, Wang Qingqing rubbed his head gently, not at all feeling that it was wrong to plant the seeds of thick black learning in such a young child’s heart.

Here, Wang Qingqing taught them face-to-face, while there, Gang Dunger was still struggling during his too long period of rebelliousness.

Since the fifth grade of primary school, Gang Dung’er’s grades began to be at the bottom, and his grades dropped. Except for scolding and nagging, none of the Liu family paid attention to seriously explore the reasons.

The teacher reported that he was lethargic in class, Cai Yuzhen not only nagged: “The family spends so much money to send you to school, but you don’t know how to play, you don’t concentrate in class, you What do you think about all day long?”

He directly talked back and lost his temper, threw cups and bowls in a row, and the family couldn’t subdue him alone.

Liu Minghua was angry, but he whipped him with a belt, and he ran away from home and cut his wrists to commit suicide. He was only a teenager, and controlled the Liu family. Properly posted. Even the second marriage partner that relatives finally introduced to Liu Minghua was scared away by him.

In the blink of an eye, the middle school entrance examination came. Cai Yuzhen was begging for God, worshipping Buddha, begging and praying, and her last efforts were in vain. .

Nine years of hard work, and the investment of hundreds of thousands was all in vain. Cai Yuzhen couldn’t stand the blow and she fell ill from overwork, so she just fell down.

Informed relatives and neighbors will inevitably discuss behind their backs: “It’s a waste of money, the child is not that material, how much it costs is the same wherever it is sent.”

“Maybe the primary school in the area is even better, don’t you say the old saying, it’s better to be a chicken head than a phoenix tail, this child’s grades were good when he was a child, if he went to ordinary schools, the pressure would be less Great, maybe it won’t fall to this step.”

There is also the bright-eyed: “This child is not good, 90% of the time blames the child’s grandmother. Whose child is like theirs, the whole pet has become a little bully.”

“That’s not right. Back then, Mei Qingqing wanted to discipline Gang Dung’er. Seeing how tight Cai Yuzhen was, she was afraid that someone would eat her precious eldest grandson. It’s not like it will fall to this point.”

A lot of people said it, and this word spread to Gang Jun’er’s ears. This child’s temper is always like this. Whenever something goes wrong, it must be someone else’s fault, and he has nothing to do with him. Therefore, he put all the reasons for his failure in the high school entrance examination on his grandmother, and continued to go to the vocational technical school to eat with peace of mind until he died.