Ex-wife’s Rise to the Top

Chapter 57 Why does marriage become like this?

Now her salary has risen. After deducting the monthly food, drink and rent, there are still a few thousand. Some of these few thousand will be saved to raise the child at that time, and some of them can be used to buy some supplements.

This is the sorrow of hitting workers. The monthly salary is only that little. If you spend more, you will become a moonlight clan.

I used to spend all the money without pregnancy, but now I have a child and I don’t plan to get married, so I will have more troubles and pressures in the future.

You can apply for social security for maternity inspection and childbirth.

After giving birth, she can receive tens of thousands of maternity allowances with her salary, and everything after that is on her own.

Raising children.

Save yourself a pension.

Save teaching funds for children.

Save money to buy a house.

These few things, because she won’t get married, she has to rely on her to realize it. The petty bourgeoisie family created by her parents has nothing to do with her. If she breaks away from the original ecological family, she becomes a person with nothing. The house of her parents is the same as her. It doesn’t matter. When her parents are old, they can’t help her raise children. She even has to take care of the old age, which means that the only person she can rely on is herself.

This is the inevitable responsibility of people after they grow up.

Marriage means that what the other half has, you have what, if the other half does not, it is to work together to obtain it.

If you don’t get married, you just go on your own.

Of the two options, it might be easier for Xu Yizhang to choose the former. After all, Han Shen now has everything. As long as she marries him, she can change her life and change herself from nothing to a city with a house, a car, and a degree. Middle class.

But this time she really didn’t want to.

As long as she doesn’t want to, Jinshan Yinshan can’t shake her, self-reliance and self-reliance are the ideal world she pursues in this life.

As long as you can live according to your own wishes, it doesn’t matter if you suffer at all.

Besides, she doesn’t have a degree. Han Shen has it. As Han Shen said before, he won’t get married in this life. Since he won’t get married, his degree will definitely be given to Little Xingxing, and Little Xingxing will do the same. If she can enter the 12-year program, no matter how big it is, she will ask the child’s grandfather to let the child hang on his grandfather’s account to study.

In short, there are always more solutions than difficulties.

At present, because of her pregnancy, she has to keep accounts every day, and control her consumption to not exceed 50 yuan.

She doesn’t buy clothes often anymore.

Not going out for a big meal.

Don’t order those 30 or 40 yuan cups of fruit tea and coffee.

The selected fruits are also cheaper seasonal fruits.

It’s not that she doesn’t love herself.

It’s not that she doesn’t enjoy life.

It’s not that she can’t afford to buy those imported strawberries and cherries, but she is mature, knowing that eating them does not mean she is a master. The key is to save money to raise children and buy a house. These two things The most important thing in her heart.

An unmarried woman may only be able to believe that she can really take care of herself if she buys a house on her own.

And the child is the heart and soul of every mother, and every mother will subconsciously give her the best things.

Xu Yizhang was lying on the bed, thinking about this, but at the same time thinking of his previous life.

In her previous life, she was an urban girl who was spoiled by her parents and grew up. She was squeamish, self-willed, she did not touch the sun with all her fingers, and spent a lot of money.

Han Shen’s monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan is used to rent a house of 7,000 to 8,000. She almost went halfway. Then she became pregnant. Because she didn’t have a job, there was no social security. A lot of money was spent on maternity inspections and childbirth. Coupled with the habit of buying whatever you want to eat, and because she was pregnant, she provided a car, and the two were struggling to make ends meet.

In order to reduce spending, Han Shen barely consumes himself.

But his never complaining temperament made Xu Yizhang unaware that their family had a very difficult life. In order to honor his parents, Xu Yizhang bought a lot of things every time he went to see his parents, and they wrapped big red envelopes, which led to Han Shenmei After knowing this, I was silent.

But Chu Huixin is not a greedy person. When Xu Yizhang wrapped the red envelope, she would buy things for her in disguise, buy supplements, and also pay for Xu Yizhang’s confinement wife, and also buy things for Little Xingxing, buy strollers, and buy clothes. Buy toys, buy rocking chairs, buy dining chairs, buy various cars…It can be said that Chu Huixin bought many things for Little Star.

Until after confinement, Xu Yizhang brought her own baby, feeling that she was abandoned by the world. In the middle of the night, Han Shen worked overtime, and the child cried day and night. She was exhausted and painful, and broke down to cry.

Please don’t cry!

She even knelt down and begged the child.

But the child still cried, crying with her, and when she finished crying, she could only accept her fate to pick up the child, walking around the house with a dull expression.

Finally, Han Shen returned with exhaustion. Xu Yizhang seemed to have caught a life-saving straw and found the source of venting. She believed that the children belonged to two people, but Han Shen worked overtime every day regardless of whether she had just finished the month. Son’s novice mother, was so angry that she threw the child to him to sleep.

Han Shen was full of alcohol and looked at the crying child in his arms.

That was the first time he showed a humiliated face.

The career is stagnant, there is a wife whose temper is becoming more and more difficult to control, and a child who is waiting to be paid.

He seems to have no place to live.

The charming and handsome man in the past is no longer vigorous, knowledgeable and charming, he is like a helpless child, looking at the baby in his arms late at night, his eyes slowly revealing disappointment…

In fact, Xu Yizhang felt that he had hurt him that time.

But she was also exhausted at the time, and she was also a woman who needed attention, so she stubbornly refused to take a look at him, and the relationship between the two fell to the freezing point. She didn’t even want to reconcile, and she even retaliated. I thought: This is better. A man who doesn’t care about his wife should let him have no wife!

Xu Yizhang felt that her past self was a little bit willful, but also uncontrollable. A girl was forced to become a mother, just like strayed into a maze. At first everything was lost, but after passing through the barriers, he could see and adapt. This identity.

People say that only by sacrificing huge work can they be highly praised by society.

This reflects that the position of mother requires huge sacrifices.

Therefore, people should not get married and have children before they are mature, otherwise, when the child is here, the marriage is likely to be cut in half.

Their marriage was actually cut in the middle of the child’s level…

Especially Xu Yizhang’s thoughts in the past were: “If a man can’t make you feel more and more happier, but can only make you feel more and more painful, this is not a healthy relationship, nor is this a happy marriage…”

She feels that every sentence in this passage is on her pain point, and once she substitutes it, it will be difficult to get out.

She recalled her unmarried days, the love of her father, the love of her mother, the gathering of friends in twos and threes, and the good academic qualifications and transcripts. She felt more and more that she was a victim of marriage. If it weren’t for her marriage tortured her like this, her life It should be struggling for a career, gathering with friends on weekends, and having a leisurely life, instead of holding a high-demand baby every day, no friends, no company, no one can talk, no one can empathize…

In the end, the random thoughts in her heart seemed to have formed a huge storm, swallowing all her reason and thinking.

She started to be unable to control herself, and blamed Han Shen for this mistake. She wounded and said time and time again:

“If you have a house like my dad, we don’t have to rent a house, so we won’t have to have a hard time!”

“If I knew that you brought me such a day, I would not marry you!”

“You wasted my youth!”

“A person like you is not worthy of me at all. My parents trained me to finish a major university, and I was finally planted in your hands!”

“You ruined me for most of my life!”

“You ruined my life!”

Thinking of this, Xu Yizhang suddenly opened his eyes.

What happened to her in the end?

Why do you say such hurtful things?

Although Han Shen was busy, he gave her all the money. Why is she still so aggressive?

Was she suffering from any mental illness at the time?

How could it be so extreme?

It may be because of her own money in this life. She understands that money is not so easy to make. She used to blame Han Shen for being incapable, but now she is struggling on her own and just needs food and clothing, and she has not been able to buy a house. Degree.

And buy a house.

Big city room.

With her current job, she may not be able to afford it in thirty years.

Thinking of the house price at this time, she sighed. She can’t afford it now, let alone in the future.

Nancheng’s housing price has always been a great success, and no one will drop it. In the future, it will always be far ahead of the country.

She might have to think of a way.

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