Chapter 424 1 ball of linen yarn
Did you agree to just listen? She is not omnipotent, so what does she do?
This kind of short-term relationship between parents is like tangled yarn. You can explain clearly, but you may not be able to solve the problem.
Otherwise, Qin Zichuan would not have been disgusted by the Shen family and had not solved the problem for so many years.
Unless you kill someone with a knife, you really can't take back your house when facing those shameless people.
As the saying goes, it is difficult for an upright official to deal with household affairs. Even if you call the police, the police will still advise you to be filial because the identity of the other party's elders is there.
After all, the general environment is here. This situation will be greatly improved in twenty years, but it is really difficult now.
Fortunately for Amelia Su, at least her so-called cousin hasn't moved in yet.
Not moving in is also temporary. Unless you are determined to break off the relationship and untie the shackles at the source, otherwise, if you want to maintain the family relationship, the other party will always have a way to harass you until you achieve your goal.
We can't let Amelia Su break off her relationship with her father, right? Otherwise, why would the eyes be so swollen?
The best way is to let Su Qing's parents sort out the pros and cons of this matter and stand on their daughter's side.
Not long after, Su Qing's brother came over.
This was the first time that Lin Jing met Su Qing's eldest brother. He seemed to be a responsible young man, but he had a gloomy feeling and his expression was not very good.
"What are you doing here?!" Su Qing glared at her eldest brother and said sullenly, "Even if I demolish my house, I won't let that kind of person live in it!"
Su Xiong was also helpless, "Grandma and dad have decided on this matter, and we juniors have nothing to say."
Su Qing was unconvinced, "That's my house, why should they make the decision?"
Su Xiong knew that his sister was feeling aggrieved at the disadvantage, and he must have felt uncomfortable. He didn't want to deal with his uncle's family either.
He is used to looking at people with his nostrils raised, as if he is so great and has always looked down on their family.
It doesn't matter if he is really capable, but he also likes to take advantage of their family, whether adults or children, there is no shortage of benefits from their family.
But the elders agreed, what could he do?
Su Qing insisted, "I don't agree."
Su Xiong was even more helpless. He took the water that Lin Jing poured for him and drank half the cup in one breath. His original intention was naturally the same as that of his sister.
But he knew his father's character very well, and it was impossible to explain clearly for a while. He could be suppressed and insulted by his grandmother, but he must demonstrate his authority in front of his children.
I would rather suffer a loss for my own family than to look good in front of others.
He could only persuade his sister, but he couldn't just stop going home in the future, right? It's not worth it for such a person.
"Brother, won't you even help me?" Su Qing asked crying, and the tears that she finally wiped away fell down again.
Su Xiong held my sister's arm hard and said seriously: "I want to help you, tell me, what do you want to do?"
Su Qing also knew what the crux was. Su's father was usually very kind to them, but he would not negotiate with his children about such matters. Even if he knew that his family was wronged, he would still endure it.
"I don't know either, but I just don't agree."
Su Xiong was in a dilemma. Su's father had a tough personality, and grandma and those people were not good people either. "If you don't agree today, then you won't be able to be relatives, and dad will definitely not agree."
Lin Jing interrupted a little, "Even if she agrees today, unless she gives the house to your cousin, this family relationship will be broken sooner or later."
"Why?" Su Qing always felt that Lin Jing had the best solution. She looked at her with red and swollen eyes and asked.
Su Xiong also looked at her.
From his sister's mouth, he already knew that this person could not only make money with his sister, but he was also the target of the genius nephew from Aunt Bai's house next door.
Su Xiong is also very curious about her.
"Let's put it this way, if you lend him your house to live in, unless you never take it back for the rest of your life. Otherwise, the day you say you will come back is not the day you actually take it back, and you will fall out and your relationship will be severed from now on."
Su Qing was stunned, but she knew that Lin Jing was right.
What to live in? Grandma just wanted her to give it away for free.
Otherwise, once someone moves in, the house belongs to them. If you want to take it back, you are disrespecting your relatives and being impersonal.
The old woman was older at that time and might be even more difficult to deal with.
After all, the matter of Qin Zichuan's house is not a secret. Who wouldn't think of him?
But Qin Zichuan's house was bought by Mr. Qin after all, and then given to his father and then passed on to him. The Qin family bought the house. Mr. Qin wanted to save face, so Qin Zichuan had to endure it.
Although my house is far inferior to his house, I bought it with my own money.
Why should you follow other people's wishes? !
Su Qing suddenly didn't feel so uncomfortable anymore, and her heart suddenly became brighter.
Rather than lending them the house to live in, and I will still be a bad person in the future, it is better for me to be a bad person now, at least the house is still mine and there is no loss.
Su Xiong immediately understood what Lin Jing meant.
It's almost like borrowing money.
Some people really need it urgently, and some people just want to borrow Xiaosa without any intention of paying it back.
If you don't lend it to him, he'll say you're inhumane and will make trouble in front of you if he wants to live. If you borrow it, he'll never pay it back. If you go to ask for a debt, he'll even beat him up if he doesn't pay it back.
Unless the money was given to him from the beginning, the relationship would end sooner or later.
If you quit early, at least the money will still be there, otherwise you will suffer a loss, but you have not yet done a good job.
"That's too disgusting." It took Lin Min a while to understand the twists and turns and couldn't help but say.
"What is this, disgusting?" Lin Jing disagreed.
It's not that the interpersonal relationships at this time are really good, but that information is underdeveloped. What everyone sees is the people in the circle around them, and there are not many weirdos.
Only after information exchange is developed will we know what kind of people we are, and we will see more of them as long as we live.
"How else could it be disgusting?"
Lin Jing made an analogy casually, "For example, some people want to take advantage and save face. They pay a rent of dozens of yuan a year and rent it for one and a half months for a year. They also say this to the outside world. You rented the house yourself, and he gave you huge benefits, which would be even more disgusting."
Lin Jing was speechless as to what Su's father had done to make him look fat. She was already stupid enough to do it herself, and she also made her children suffer.
"What should I do? I don't want them to take advantage of me." Su Qing still felt that she had no idea.
Lin Jing said: "It's not a big problem now. As long as you firmly refuse, they can't do anything to you. But if they move in, then you can't do anything to them. You can see the situation yourself."
Many things are like this, one waxes and wanes.
As for what to do, it all depends on personal attitude.