Chapter 417 Love is the solution
After all, raising children is their responsibility as parents, and they should not put all the pressure on the children.
It used to be easy for a family to live together in the countryside and take care of each other, but now it takes several days to take a train to see each other. It is clear that my daughter is not married yet, so seeing each other is like visiting relatives, which is really difficult.
Luckily for Lin Min, he was already fifteen when he entered high school and could more or less take care of himself. Lin Jing only had to meet him and hold a parent-teacher meeting.
Lin Rui is still two years younger. When one of them goes to junior high school and the other to high school, how can she manage it when she herself has to go to college?
Lin Jing was a little worried after hearing Zhang Cuiying's concerns.
It's okay for my sister, but my brother is indeed a little smaller. It would be a big sin if he was led astray in his own hands.
It's one thing to hand out test papers and help with homework, but it's another thing to be a human being.
When she trained the two white-eyed wolves in the Zhang family, they were both in college, and their characters were scum.
"Isn't there still time? There's no need to rush this matter." Lin Jing didn't pat herself on the back for any praise. Any disputes could be shelved for the time being.
When Zhang Cuiying arrived, the atmosphere in the courtyard instantly took on a New Year atmosphere.
shopping?
There was no need for that. Zhang Cuiying packed her bags and carried everything she thought was reasonably priced in Nandu, especially the cured meats and sauerkraut that had been prepared long ago. Fortunately, she brought two little dolls and could still hold the jar. After squeezing into the train, Lin Jing felt extremely impressed.
"Mom, it only takes a few days for this thing to ferment. If you come earlier next time, why don't we make it earlier?" It is absolutely impossible not to do it. Without these things, there will always be something missing in Zhang Cuiying's heart during the New Year. What, Lin Jing could only advise her to come here early and do it here.
In fact, she can make it herself, and she does it very well, but Zhang Cuiying feels that what she makes is authentic.
Both her son and daughter are successful and making money, which is both a good thing and a pity for Zhang Cuiying.
The good thing is that life at home has gotten better, but the regret is that as a mother, I don't seem to have much effect in front of my children anymore.
In Qi City, she could make some money making tea eggs with Lin Jie. In Nandu, she had two granddaughters and took care of two underage children. She didn't have the energy or ability to make money outside. I feel as if I am of no use anymore.
Especially for her two younger children, she still relies on her son's money to go to a good local school, otherwise she wouldn't even be able to pay the school selection fee. .
The eldest brother is like his father. Lin Yun himself thinks that there is no problem in supporting his younger brothers and sisters to study now that he has money, but Zhang Cuiying always feels a little uncomfortable.
The parents of other people's children make money for their children to study and start a family. Their family... She felt that she seemed to be very incompetent.
I always want to do something for my family to prove myself, and I even show some tough persistence, but after all, I still feel that I am old.
As a mother, she didn't know what to do when her son encountered something like that. In the end, she relied on her daughter to hire talented people to help solve the problem.
"I'm old. Apart from making a few bites of food, I can't do anything to help you." Finally, Zhang Cuiying said what was in her heart.
Sometimes, because the body is not strong enough, even the two granddaughters are a little unable to do what they do.
Lin Jing... During the summer vacation, her mother still wanted to study more and improve herself. Why has she become so depressed now in just a few months?
"Mom, what are you talking about?" Lin Jing said with a fake smile: "I don't know what to buy for the New Year even if you're not here. I haven't prepared anything except quilts. If you... If you don't feel well today, it will be the same if we go shopping tomorrow."
"Normal people would find it hard to sit on the train for a long time. It will definitely be even harder for you to take care of two children. Wouldn't it be fine after just two days of rest?"
Lin Jing knew that what her mother cared about was the loss caused by the fact that she no longer had a parent who could shelter her children from the wind and rain. Even the two younger ones had ideas that she didn't know and wanted to plan their own lives. She He was still in the same place and could only follow behind the child.
She was helpless to find that the children no longer needed her.
She has never given birth to a child, but she has raised two children. She has experienced the feeling of gap when watching her children grow up and no longer need her.
Fortunately, she had her own career at that time and was able to find her own value in her career, while Zhang Cuiying only had younger children, and even the younger children would grow up and leave in the future.
Lin Yan naturally noticed it and also said: "Look, my sister's brain is all used for studying. If you hadn't brought so many things here, I'm afraid she would have lived on instant noodles every day during the New Year."
"Let's take stock of the things first. I'm really tired from riding in the car today. If we're short of anything, we'll just buy it tomorrow."
Compared with Zhang Cuiying, Lin Yan not only takes care of Lin Jian but also works in her eldest brother's factory. As the factory director's sister, Lin Yun arranged an easy job for her. The salary is not high, but compared with those who work in the workshop. Get up and have more time to take care of your children.
As a mother, I know how difficult it is to be a mother. She only has one child, and sometimes she feels that she is paying attention to one child and neglecting the other. Her parents have five children, and they are not the kind to worry about. The hard work is natural. Even more so.
Especially since the person she chose was a scumbag. When her father passed away, her three younger siblings were all underage. You can imagine how heavy the burden was on her mother.
Now the burden has been lifted, but the loss in my heart is inevitable.
Seeing that Zhang Cuiying's mood had improved, Lin Yan kept up her efforts and said: "No wonder Jingjing insists on going to Nandu to celebrate the New Year. You need your eyes to celebrate the New Year."
Now that her daughters have grown up, Zhang Cuiying is no longer the country woman, but even if she knows that her daughter is coaxing her, she still feels a little comfortable.
With Lin Jing's temperament, she would definitely be able to live without her, but she just didn't know how she would live.
"Okay, let's talk about changing schools in a few days. Let's take a rest today, and we will go shopping for new year's goods tomorrow." Zhang Cuiying, as a parent, has the right to speak.
"Tomorrow?" Qin Zichuan murmured in a low voice and looked at Lin Jing.
Lin Jing was confused: "You can just go to work tomorrow. My mother is here to do these things, so she can't make mistakes."
Qin Zichuan asked seriously: "Will my future mother-in-law give me a bad impression if I don't pick up the things she buys?"
Lin Jing was shocked.
You don’t think you have such a good impression on my mother, do you? Are you thinking that you can solve the problem by carrying things?
Looking at that extremely serious expression, as if he was asking for an answer when he was taking a test paper and thought there would be a standard answer, Lin Jing suddenly realized - was he treating falling in love as solving a certain problem?